Something i’m Not Sure About
Hiew… Finally my test 2 has ended, thanks God i’m still alive here to write this post (i’m so worried about my academic results coz i did not do well in the last test). i’m sorry to myself that i did not write new post for so long.
Recently i’ve found out something that really upset me, it’s an interesting fact that i can observe especially after i entered upm and this fenomena is especially intense from those people in my course and from CLHS.
What i have noticed is the fact that some people are ‘acting’ here. They are FAKE. They are fake in such a way that they lie to people in all kind of aspects, from academics to everyday’s situation. i hate those people. They are camouflaging, pretending and they are not real. i just don’t understand why people have to lie in order to live, just to protect themselves? or this is the reality and cruelty of nowadays world? Do i have to face the reality so early, or do i have to follow them so that i’m not myself anymore?
Why can’t we just live in trust and in our true self in everthing by opening our heart to every people we met. If everyone in this world, or at least in my uni is not fake, i’m pretty sure anyone of us will become true friends. i’m confused also with the fact that the cleverer a person is, the more he will use some techniques to hide himself, not to let people know who they are, what they want and they are full of motive! This is especially reflected in my course.
Haih… True friend is hard to seek. The one that you can share everything with, yes, i mean everything, is really reaLLY REALLY hard to seek. What can be done in the process of searching true friend is we should open our heart to everyone around us and hopefully they shall be another person who did that. And of course, finally, they shall become true friend. Do not care with those fake people who walk pass you because they shall not have true friends in their whole lives. Their lives shall fill with all those fake smile, talk and act.
i’m seeking for true friend here, i tried in every efforts not to tell a single lie to people that meet up with me, not to throw a fake smile on them. And of course, for those people who are reading this post, i wish you shall get a true friend soon.
October 4th, 2006 at 1:36 am
hehe … here’s one true friend !
October 4th, 2006 at 7:46 am
Haha, it’s not easy to find a true friend in university…everybody’s so busy with their own lives, that a lot of us become quite selfish, including yours truly..^^||||||….it’s better to remain in contact with your old friends too!
October 5th, 2006 at 6:38 pm
Hmm, i believe that none of us want to be friend with people that lie and being FAKE. However, this is the fact that naturally, MEN are born with the ability to lie. I always believe that as a human-being, sometimes, we do have to lie, probably white lie. Honestly, being honest is important, especially to the poeple u loved. So, no matter how are the people around u trying to be fake and LIE, as long as u being HONEST and true to ur heart, there is always a peace in mind, and always happy. DONT always upset with people that LIE or being fake, coz u cant do anything on that. JUZ remember, always be prepare to “defend” from people “back-stabbing”, please dont think or intend to hurt others. Chinese’s Proverb: ” Hai Ren Zhi Xing Bu Ke You (means that we shouldnt have the heart or intention to “hurt” people), Fang Ren Zhi Xing Bu Ke Wu (means that we should always perpare to “defend” poeple that “hurt” us, like back-stabbing, lying and so on.)
October 6th, 2006 at 6:46 am
Do the best of yourself, don’t let unworth peoples influence your way of life. Don’t let bad influences influence you to be bad, keep on your way, when u good automatically u will meet with nice friends.
October 14th, 2006 at 4:01 am
take it easy,fren!
as a chinese phase, “one kind of rice feed different kind of ppl.”
good days
October 14th, 2006 at 10:39 pm
since when u like that liao. are those ppl include me??
hahaha actually in this world all the ppl also like that de juz different of ppl will hv different of field they will act jia jia. so we juz hv to know 1 thing is that going to affect us if not then never mind lah. if going to affect us then only we hv to do something b4 they affect us loh. aiyah dun think too much lah some time u juz hv to take it easy loh
October 23rd, 2006 at 9:11 am
Well.
“Friends are hardly to seek”
You are right man.
Your situation may due to the course you are pursuing.
“Engineering”– Wau!
Many will glance at you in envy after hearing this noun. Indeed, this is a very highly competitive course. In other words, only intelligent people are qualified for it. There are so many great students, how can one stand up differently among this group of people?
Selfishness…
But i’m pretty sure that there will be some guys of golden hearts who are willingly to be your good friends. They exist, just a matter if you bump into or realise them or not.
Study is vital, extremely. But enjoying uni-life while learning is more a important one.
Smile, friend.. Dont just freeze your face muscles…